Now see here girl....I told you that you were going to get an addiction.

Hopefully others will help you with this, I'm probably not the best one to answer, but seeing as how you asked me to....
I do one of five things:
1. Airbrush transparent highlights and shadows and then airbrush an opaque base colour behind that
2. Block in the shadows and highlights and add the body colour while they are still wet and blend using either smiths cream or liquin. I use those soft makeup wedges, soft brushes, rags and my fingers
3. paint in my highlights and shadows using fine lines, allow to dry completely and paint in the main colour
4. paint in shadows only using an asphaltum glaze, allow to dry completely and add my base colour using long quick strokes...if you overwork it at all you will disturb the asphaltum glaze
5. as above only spraying the background colour in.
There are probably another 20 answers to this. Experiment on scrap glass before trying it on your piece to see what works best for you. For "important" pieces I usually use the airbrush. I like the look of brushstrokes and character in a piece, the uneducated public likes perfection.

I believe there is no shame in failure. Rather, the shame lies in the loss of all the things that might have been, but for the fear of failure.